Why I Feel Entrepreneurial Parents Expecting Their Children to be EXACTLY Like Them Will Just Bring DISAPPOINTMENT
I was thinking about mistakes that Chinese parents (or Asian parents) tend to make. This isn't an argument against the need to establish obedience, submission., set standards of excellence, and the like. However, it can be too much . There's a big difference between authoritarian parenting and authoritative parenting. This is the chart where we can see a big difference. Obviously, being demanding and supportive is the best way. It's because if you demand good results--you need to be supportive to get those good results. Unfortunately, such may not be the case in some parenting. Some want their children to graduate with honors but are unsupportive or just force them. That's why some do well (for a while) and then they begin to falter later in life. It's not like those who did well in school because their parents are supportive and gave them only the right amount of pressure (i.e. not demanding honors and only getting mad when grades drop low). I feel that the late J