When Academic Success Doesn't Translate Into Real-Life Success

As the month comes to a close, I reflect on the fact that I wasn't a good student. I remembered telling everyone at the graduation ball, "I almost didn't graduate from high school." I barely passed high school. I was always in panic because of the statement, "Your grades will determine your future!" I remember saying, "Well, what can I do? I'm not a summa cum laude!" I was given the painful answer, "There are some summa cum laudes who never did anything with their lives." Some people are failures all throughout (which I use to justify being stuck with my fixed mindset). Some people are failures at first but become successful (although not necessarily billionaires). Some people are both successful in life and academics, such as the late John Gokongwei Jr. or Mahathir Mohamad. Some people who graduated with honors eventually admit that the school system is too focused on grades rather than learning (read here ). Since these people are p...